Upload your photos and videos and show that you are really ready to have fun with others. If you want to be discreet, you can even keep the goods private, it`s up to you! Tip: You can avoid most online dating scams by setting a hard rule of not sending money to someone you haven`t met in person. Scammers can target anyone. Maya Diamond, a dating and relationship coach, says, «If you haven`t met someone in person and they say, `I love you,` there`s a good chance they`re a scammer, especially if they haven`t made an effort to meet you. Another great clue is when they say they work in another country, but need money to come to your country to visit you.. . . .